Hello babes SO I have been thinking about making my fitness journey a central part of my blog since that’s a huge part of where I’m at in my life right now. When I did my fitness transformation & update, I got so many questions that I really couldn’t answer because I’m not certified in training or nutrition. So to avoid me bs-ing my way, I’ve teamed up with one of my friends from a longggg time to guest post on my blog once a week in my new #FitnessUnfckd series.
Being a millennial babe, I’ve promised myself that my 20s are going to be a time of utter selfishness #SORRYNOTSORRY
If I have to be totally honest with you: I felt like I wasted a good few years where I was settling for bullshit and now that I’m newly single after 7 years, I feel so motivated and empowered to live my best life. Because of this recent realization, I decided to put together 20 things you need to do in your 20s and naturally, I had to share it with you.
I haven’t done a lot of these so I’m super excited to check them off my list. You can always save/print the image below so you can always be reminded of them & be motivated to do them. Maybe we can even do it together!
Don’t forget to tag me if you print it & you’re using it!
OKAYYYYY. If you’ve been reading my blog for a while, then you know about my long AF journey & struggle with fitness & gym. We’ve already covered the basics of my issues in this post so looking back on it, it’s definitely been quite an up and down ride.
If you want an idea of what workouts I do at the gym, be sure to follow me @itsroxyjames on instagram & snapchat where I share mini videos.
I have promised my #snapchatsquad to talk about this topic FOREVER, and finally, here we are. So whether you like vanilla-only-on the-bed type sex or that hair-pulling-back-arching-slamming-into-the- walls type sex (#guilty), birth control (b.c.) is something you NEED to consider when getting down and dirty.
I’ve been on birth control for nearly a decade and I can’t lie, it’s definitely a relief because you never have to worry about getting preggers- once you take your b.c. properly. And TRUST me, I was so shook this past week when I realized I royally fucked up my b.c. and then had to pee on a stick. 3 minutes waiting to see if you’re gonna be popping out a kid is a LONG time people!! After that strong reminder about the importance of b.c. I was like ohhhh yea, gotta do this post now for real.
I’ll be talking about the 4 types of birth control that I’m familiar with and my personal experiences. Please do your own research about the pros & cons of birth control & seek out professional medical advice as each person is different.
Okayyyy so I’ve obviously been thinking about doing a post like this for a while. Am I completely over my breakup or being cheated on? No. But I know what helps/is helping me through this and obviously I had to share it with you**.
So where do I begin? Being cheated on is often very hush hush because of one thing: shame. I felt humiliated and I know that I’m not the only one who feels that way. How does one even go about admitting- especially publicly like what I did- that “I was cheated on“. And it got me thinking, why was I ashamed?????