Where do I even begin? If you’ve been reading my blog as long as I had it, then you’ll know that I make mention of my boyfriend here and there. He was my boyfriend for the past 7 years and long story short, things came to a messy end about one week ago from the date of this post. I explained the entire thing in great detail on snapchat and I do have the video saved but tbh, I’m not sure if I’m going to re-share/upload it permanently- at least not now anyway.
But what I will say is that I was cheated on throughout the most part of my relationship and I just finally had enough. I realized that I deserved more and I wanted a real man in my life. Someone who was down for me like I was down for them. Someone who wanted passion and excitement and most of all, someone who I could, most importantly, trust.
What I am gonna talk about though are 10 ways to get over a messy breakup. The reason I’m stressing on “messy” is that mutual, civilized breakups are easier to deal with. On the other hand, if your breakup was really hurtful, it might be harder to get over. But no worries, I got you.
NOTE: these are ways that I coped with my breakup. They may not work for everyone. However, if you have any tips to contribute, share in the comments below!